FUEL THE FIRE FROM WITHIN
You Need a Mission.
If your relationship is suffering, it’s not because you’re broken. It’s because your ego’s been driving. I’ll help you take the wheel.
WHO THIS IS FOR?
I work with men who want better relationships—and are actually willing to do what it takes.
That’s not everyone.
This is for you if you’re:
Single and serious about attracting and building with an extraordinary woman
In a relationship that used to be incredible, but now feels confusing or cold
Debating ending, repairing, or opening your relationship and need clarity and control
WHAT THIS IS (AND ISN’T)
This isn’t therapy. It’s not coaching. It’s not consulting.
It’s Stoic transformation.
Therapy looks backward.
Coaches cheer.
Consultants boss.
Self-help lets you drift.
This is radical accountability. My pace. Stoicism’s playbook.
You’ll be challenged. You’ll be called out. You’ll be handed the plan. And then, you’ll get better.
WHY ME
If you’re stuck, I’ve probably been deeper in it.
I grew up in filth, abuse, and in the system; but still became a standout student athlete and well-liked friend.
Then I became a war vet, a womanizer, a drunk, a liar.
I gained 100+ pounds and nearly ended my life.
Then, I rebuilt everything through Stoicism, journaling, and brutal honesty.
You can read more about it in my book, Ruthless.
Now, I have a marriage I’d put up against anyone’s and a family devoted wholly to excellence and service.
THE METHOD
I created this method from the wreckage of my life; and it’s proven to work - every single time.
It is not for everyone. That’s good. You’re not everyone.
I call myself a Socratic Martinet.
You’ll write. You’ll reflect. You’ll act.
You’ll stop lying to yourself—and start commanding your life.
When you don’t, I yell questions at you until you answer yourself with action.
No fake hype. No finger-pointing at anyone but yourself.
Just brutal clarity, emotional discipline, and real intimacy.
"Don’t be ashamed to need help. Like a soldier storming a wall… if you need a comrade to pull you up? So what?" —Marcus Aurelius
Don’t wait until your world is on fire to ask for water.
Text me. 248-714-0176
Let’s put your ego in its place; and your life in motion.
Services
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No-nonsense consulting for those who have faced trauma, but refuse to let it derail their path through greatness.
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Archon Accountability is an exclusive, high-performance community for athletes, executives, veterans, and top performers who refuse mediocrity, thrive on discipline, and demand relentless personal growth. Learn More.
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The Honesty Experiment Consulting is a structured, no-BS journaling and mindset shifting system designed to break self-deception, eliminate excuses, and rebuild your life through radical self-honesty.
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I help organizations equip their teams, especially men, with practical tools to face triggers, reframe trauma, and build a culture of resilience, honest integrity, and high performance so the mission can remain the focus for everyone, not drama or outbursts of emotions.
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Leadership & Discipline Consulting sharpens your mental edge, fortifies your willpower, and equips you with the resilience and clarity needed to lead with confidence under any challenge.
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Team Consulting educates elite teams on Stoic principles and the psychology of dealing with life’s ups and downs, equipping teams with the tools to move, communicate, and build on success that takes advantage of adversity with clarity, resilience, and integrity.
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Dive into Ruthless and The Honesty Experiment, powerful guides to radical self-honesty, personal transformation, and resilience. They are designed to challenge your perspective and push you toward real growth. You can purchase them below from Amazon.
Services
1-on-1
For: Elite professionals who need to reestablish or get reacquainted with resilient behavior patterns.
What You’ll Get: Personalized consulting to reengage extreme mental toughness, emotional clarity, and unshakable resilience. We strip away the noise, face the hard truths, and build a strategy to move forward stronger than ever.
Accountability
For: Athletes, C-suite executives, business leaders, veterans, and high performers who demand greatness and thrive in a community of extraordinary peers.
What You’ll Get: Daily check-ins, workout and journaling commitments, and a tight-knit group pushing each other to higher levels of discipline, resilience, and success. No excuses. No weakness. Just growth.
The Honesty Experiment
For: Anyone ready to completely transform their life.
What You’ll Get: A structured, no-BS journaling and mindset system designed to break self-deception, eliminate excuses, and rebuild your life through radical self-honesty.
Organizations & Teams
For: Businesses, teams, and organizations that want to create a culture where men are allowed to deal with triggers in a judgement-free, efficient manner.
What You’ll Get: A structured, results-driven framework that helps teams reframe their narratives, reject excuses, and take full ownership of their growth. Through tailored workshops and consulting, we provide organizations with the tools to foster honest self-reflection, resilience, and accountability—leading to stronger leadership, improved performance, and a healthier, more cohesive work environment.
Leadership & Discipline Training
For: Leaders who feel their willpower and mental fortitude could be challenged and want to reinforce their resilience.
What You’ll Get: Strategies to strengthen mental toughness, sharpen decision-making, and cultivate the discipline needed to lead effectively under pressure.
Eric’s Books
The Cost of Trauma
The Fight for Redemption
I didn’t survive trauma, I became it.
A childhood of chaos didn’t just leave scars; it rewired me. Warped my choices. Poisoned my relationships. Turned me into a liar, a manipulator, a wrecking ball to everything good in my life. I didn’t just char bridges, I torched whole cities. And for decades, I didn’t care one bit.
Until the moment came when I had to fight for my life.
This isn’t a feel-good redemption story. This is the tell-all, soul-baring tale of the true cost of self-destruction, lies, betrayals, and an ultimate reckoning. It’s about breaking cycles that are meant to destroy lives, about dissecting perceptions to find authentic motivation.
No one is too far gone. No past is too broken. But change is war. And if you want it, you better be ready to bleed for it, literally at times.
Purchase Ruthless here!
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The Honesty Experiment Journal
For years, I lived a lie; many, in fact. I wore masks, played roles, and told myself stories that kept me comfortable but trapped. I wasn’t just deceiving others; I was at war with myself.
The Honesty Experiment isn’t a self-help trend; it’s a reckoning. A dismantling of the illusions that keep you stuck. It’s about confronting your darkest truths and rewriting the narrative that’s been controlling you. This journal isn’t here to make you feel good, it’s here to make you face yourself.
Because real change isn’t found in easy answers or affirmations. It’s found in the raw, unfiltered pages where you finally stop lying to yourself.
The question isn’t can you change? It’s will you be honest enough to?
Purchase The Honesty Experiment Journal here!
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